One of the most difficult things about a divorce often involves deciding on the terms of parenting time, formerly called visitation. This time is when the non-custodial parent will spend time with the child. This process can be made much less stressful if both parties focus on the needs of the child. The key to developing a parenting time schedule that works for all parties is communication. For a child-centered approach, where the child’s needs are placed first, it is important for the two parties to focus on what is best for the child’s education, health, and well-being. I encourage my clients to create a written schedule that will assist them in handling specific holidays and school breaks. Ideally, this schedule would accommodate the needs of each parent’s schedule. If the parties cannot agree on a schedule, the Court will determine the terms of parenting time. As an experienced family law attorney, I aim to keep these cases out of court so as to empower my clients with amiable, agreed-upon arrangements. But sometimes, two parties, no matter how much they may love their child, cannot agree on parenting time. When this happens, I will aggressively litigate parenting time issues in family court and pursue what is in the best interest of the child.
Should a case like this go to court, it is common in Michigan for the Court to give preference to the parent who can provide the most stable and supportive environment for the child's health, education and emotional well-being. The non-custodial parent is then typically (though not always) allowed to see the child one evening during every week, as well as every-other weekend, and on alternating holidays, and for 2 to 4 weeks during summer vacations from school. There is also a tendency for the Court to allow more expansive alternate weekend parenting time as well as more flexible vacation periods for both parents. We like to empower our clients and create forums for open, positive communication. Not many people want to have the court decide on a visitation schedule, and for the needs of the child, many parties will find the common ground of peaceful communication about visitation in order to find the best fit for the needs of the child or children.
Time spent with one’s child is one of the most valuable things a person can have, and dealing with an uncooperative other parent can be frustrating, overwhelming, and at times, even scary. We take pride in our ability to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts so that the child will ultimately be the focus and benefit from a clearly thought out, well-negotiated visitation schedule. When it comes to sharing moments with children, it’s best to choose an experienced family law attorney whose approach is child-centered and compassionate.
